the moment of comparison, aphorism 363, A Human Strategy by Matt Berry
363
We grow in silent increments but manifest ourselves in the moment of comparison. Great events measure the ability; they do not nurture it. The blunder in life is to mistake this measuring for the growth itself. To say it in another way, grand events manifest the accumulation of all our smallest moments more than they account for our totality. Who we are does not make us; that which makes us does not reveal our growth ... but like clouds which gather energy silently and invisibly, and in an instant, bond, flash and split the tree ... but who cares for the history of that force as much as its demonstration?