in spite of oneself, A human Strategy, Matt Berry, aphorism 189

189
The object is not to forgive in spite of oneself.  The object is a higher degree of clarity.  That this state “forgives” is coincidental and accounts for the misunderstanding.  To forgive or not to forgive was never the conflict.  The true conflict was one of level: whether one had the strength to climb above the lower conflict, to exist from a higher point of view.



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