If the solution requires that you ask for help, you confess that you’ve got the problem. If you don’t reach for it, you sink under your heavy silence. You are up to your knees in mud or to your nose in quicksand. It is always good to choose bad over much worse, yet perversely, it sometimes requires more discipline to take the easier way out.
the obstacle, aphorism 367, A Human Strategy by Matt Berry
367 A: Is it more pleasant without the obstacle? B: Yes, but before I discovered that it was an obstacle, I was content. There was no inconvenience, and therefore, there was no obstacle. A: But if it is “better” without the obstacle, wouldn’t it be wise to look for other comfortable, and therefore invisible obstacles everywhere? A Human Strategy ** The Mechanics of Virtue ** Post-Atheism