The separation between cognitive chambers is total. For the experience of a lasting love, one needs a stable circumstance or two symbiotic, fundamental orientations. A relationship is a lasting benefit vague enough to survive a perpetual misunderstanding that has two souls forever approaching hoped-for resolutions.
the obstacle, aphorism 367, A Human Strategy by Matt Berry
367 A: Is it more pleasant without the obstacle? B: Yes, but before I discovered that it was an obstacle, I was content. There was no inconvenience, and therefore, there was no obstacle. A: But if it is “better” without the obstacle, wouldn’t it be wise to look for other comfortable, and therefore invisible obstacles everywhere? A Human Strategy ** The Mechanics of Virtue ** Post-Atheism